tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3059379998574530512.post4166863014956912021..comments2018-09-12T12:34:15.553-07:00Comments on The Daily Brain Shelter: Unrealistic ExpectationsAdam Matthewshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03855316858127390453noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3059379998574530512.post-57188959487324675742009-10-22T22:28:48.619-07:002009-10-22T22:28:48.619-07:00I completely agree. In fact, many of the famous a...I completely agree. In fact, many of the famous and prosperous guests being interviewed on shows that I've seen on shows such as Larry King, Charlie Rose or others have said "If you really want to be successful or make a lot of money.....do what you love". This basically boils down to living life on your terms....not another person's. Thank you for your post!Adam Matthewshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03855316858127390453noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3059379998574530512.post-33225928025589128462009-10-22T21:09:52.059-07:002009-10-22T21:09:52.059-07:00Unfortunately, the pressure from society can be to...Unfortunately, the pressure from society can be too strong for most to resist. Job, Marriage, and kids can all be dictated by what other people want from you.<br /><br />It requires real balls to go it alone - and it can get lonely. But it's worth the effort to do what YOU want to do - even if you're the only one.Bhagwad Jal Parkhttp://www.bhagwad.com/blognoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3059379998574530512.post-61477330996892146132009-10-22T12:24:36.531-07:002009-10-22T12:24:36.531-07:00Thank you once again for the great comment Psych B...Thank you once again for the great comment Psych Babbler. To answer your question, I am a business owner and now a student on top of that. I am studying business, but my change majors to something psychology related. First and foremost.....I am just an average guy who really likes to help other people. Take care!Adam Matthewshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03855316858127390453noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3059379998574530512.post-102024045242878442009-10-22T03:11:45.331-07:002009-10-22T03:11:45.331-07:00It's the 'shoulds' isn't it? It...It's the 'shoulds' isn't it? It's nice when we prefer to reach our goals but by putting all that pressure on ourselves with unrealistic goals, we are only setting ourselves up for failure and therefore disappointment.<br /><br />You write really interesting posts and very psychologically relevant ones. May I ask what is it that you do? (profession/study)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com